Most of the time, I don't worry about what's going to happen. Three years ago, I "gave" my fertility over to God. We don't avoid or try to prevent pregnancy from occurring, we leave it up to God. Honestly, it's the best decision I've probably ever made. When I was charting for NFP, I always found it stressful. I didn't want to avoid being with my husband simply because we MIGHT get pregnant and that it wasn't the "right" time for a new baby. Now I don't have to think about it at all. If we conceive, then great! If we don't conceive, then great!
My whole life is in His hands. I've given Him all of my worries, all of my fears...though they keep trying to creep up and overwhelm me. It's only 530am, and I woke up emotional and crying, fearful of losing another child. How will I bear it again? Do I have the strength to lose yet another? I know God is holding me, He knows what is best. He will give me strength to endure whatever happens. I feel selfish and scared. I don't want the violence of miscarriage. This is why I feel selfish--that I think tho way, 'I don't want a miscarriage.' I should be like Mary "Let it be done as YOU say." And most days I do pray like that. But there are dark, dark moments. And this morning is one of them. Our Lady of Guadalupe, St Gerard, St Margaret of Scotland, St Andrew: Pray for us!